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不知道刘璇的女孩

那年,系里一位来自大陆的学长毕业找到了工作,实验室的几个同学为他举办了一个小型的庆祝及欢送会。一位同学把他的女朋友也带来了。这个女孩是外系的,之前没见过。

她大约二十五六岁,小小的个子,大大的眼睛,棱角分明的脸庞,皮肤黝黑。衣着朴素,头发随便地扎在脑后。第一眼见她就觉得像一个人——非常像体操运动员刘璇。

吃饭时刚好和她挨着,就提起她与刘璇长得很像。女孩子听了笑着说,之前也有人说过同样的话,随后问道“谁是刘璇啊?”

一句话让我颇感意外。因为一年前刘璇刚刚在奥运会上获得平衡木冠军,那时在中国几乎家喻户晓。即使海外留学生中,不知道她的人也不多。

由此看来,这个姑娘可能不只不太看奥运比赛转播,甚至连中文新闻也很少看。属于“两耳不闻窗外事”,一心向学的好学生。

后来听说她国内本科上的少年班。当时在读医学院。特别用功。

多年过去,几经辗转,已经没有了那个女孩的消息。以她那种自律和努力,相信早已顺利毕业,并获得执照,开始行医了。

虽然这么久了,还常常会想起她。每当自己倦怠拖延,浪费许多时间追剧,浏览质量不高的文章讲座,沉溺于过量无用或无益的信息时,就会想起她那句“刘璇是谁”,就会感叹于人与人之间意志力的巨大差异。

有两种说法很有道理。第一是所有与外界及他人的矛盾和问题,其实最终是通过征服自己,调整和改变自己来解决的。

另一种说法是,一个人成功的程度,除了机遇运气,最主要是看他把时间花在了哪里。

近来行动力减弱,计划完成总是拖后,谨以此文自勉。

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